Alicja appears on the front cover of a Polish magazine having done an interview entitled: It's My Life! (could almost be a title for a new book... watch out a certain someone!) I have posted a few excerpts from the interview for anyone who wishes to read. Ms Bachleda may not be the most riveting person on the planet, but at least she intends to maintain a decorum of self-decency along with an ethical standard of behaviour towards her work. Colin should thank his lucky stars that at least this is one woman who isn't intent on trying to damage his career in order to further her own...well not yet anyway! ; - D
If Alicja Bachleda had a tatto of personal motto could be "I will cope".
- I can take time. - I can take time. But most often be sitting at home with Henio and watched it grow. But most Often be sitting at home with Henio and watched it grow. I think that if my closeness gives him a sense of security, then he should not receive it. I think if my closeness That gives him a sense of security, then he Should not receive it. On the other hand I've always been an independent person and to be able to travel, work, was important for me. On the other hand I've always been an independent person and to be Able to travel, work, was important for me. If I were to renounce this, I would be unhappy, which would reflect on my child. If I were to Renounce this, I would be unhappy, Which would reflect on my child.
- It's hard. - It's hard. Once we went with Colin for four days in Mexico, son was at home with his grandmother. Once the fan with Colin for four days in Mexico, son was at home with his grandmother. The first days were horrible: almost did not see what surrounded me, I did not feel any pleasure, only remorse. The first days were horrible: almost did not see what surrounded me, I did not feel any pleasure, only remorse. Still a voice told me: "You egoistko. Still a voice told me: "You egoistko. But then it was easier. But then it was easier.
- I do not have a business plan. - I do not have a business plan. The fact that I did not plan to be my mother so early. The fact That I did not plan to be my mother so early. The decision was made spontaneously. The Decision was made spontaneously. On the other hand, it is proof that something is written in the space for me. On the other hand, it is the proof That something is written in the space for me. And the professional determination, which I used, somewhat subsided. And the professional Determination, Which I used, somewhat subsided. There is a desire to stabilize. There is a desire to stabilization. That must be rooted somewhere, is not so: from flower to flower ... That must be rooted somewhere, is not so: from flower to flower ...
- It's hard. - It's hard. Once we went with Colin for four days in Mexico, son was at home with his grandmother. Once the fan with Colin for four days in Mexico, son was at home with his grandmother. The first days were horrible: almost did not see what surrounded me, I did not feel any pleasure, only remorse. The first days were horrible: almost did not see what surrounded me, I did not feel any pleasure, only remorse. Still a voice told me: "You egoistko. Still a voice told me: "You egoistko. But then it was easier. But then it was easier.
- I do not have a business plan. - I do not have a business plan. The fact that I did not plan to be my mother so early. The fact That I did not plan to be my mother so early. The decision was made spontaneously. The Decision was made spontaneously. On the other hand, it is proof that something is written in the space for me. On the other hand, it is the proof That something is written in the space for me. And the professional determination, which I used, somewhat subsided. And the professional Determination, Which I used, somewhat subsided. There is a desire to stabilize. There is a desire to stabilization. That must be rooted somewhere, is not so: from flower to flower ... That must be rooted somewhere, is not so: from flower to flower ...
"Colin should thank his lucky stars that at least this is one woman who isn't intent on trying to damage his career in order to further her own...well not yet anyway! ; - D"
ReplyDeleteThat's probably only because he bought her and Henry a $1,000.000 LA home and is paying her a sh!tload of alimony every month.
The fact they only remain in contact by e-mail should speak volumes.
Their understanding is far from perfect...
I think she is lying to save face. And also there is the confidentiality contract!
ReplyDeleteThis is from the coalcja blog.
and to make it clear
It is important to be able at some point look at the relationship from the side and asked whether we are moving in the right direction. I am glad that at some stage we did and we took Colin decided that our relationship turned into the more friendly, while referring to with respect to the feelings that we in common. Because despite everything that we do not live together, we are close to each other and are mutually supporting. And we want to bring up in the love of our Henia.
Yeah, I think she is lying to save HIS face. She said "we decided that our relationship" But we know what heppened: it was exactly the same like with Emma - lets have a baby (she sad it "was spontenous" - sounds familiar?)and than he needed space.
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ReplyDeleteI understand what you're saying, but as they 'do' have a child together, and from a realistic point of view 'whomever' Colin has a child with he would need to, and would probably want to, make sure his child was 'taken care of' in the best possible way he could offer.
Also he would have to pay alimony regardless of who the mother was, and so if that also means he's got to buy the mother a house in order to keep things 'sweet' as in having regular access to his child then I don't think he'd have too many objects.
Their 'understanding' may be far from perfect, but at least he's fulfilling his obligations as as a father ;;)
A# 12:29 PM
It would make sense for them to have a 'confidentiality' contract being in place, but even if there isn't one I think they're both likely to be in mutual agreement in regards to protecting their son as best they can from the media.
Maybe we should give thanks Colin didn't have a child with Emma Forrest otherwise the poor kid would have been exposed at every given opportunity... hell, she'd have probably written a biography on him by now! ;))
On tribeca film fest we could see how not friendly they were. And he didn't visit her in NY, Not a very nice post partum relationship IMHO.
ReplyDeleteAreyou going to the EF book reading, Gemini???
ReplyDeleteI am in London that day so yes, quite possibly...
ReplyDeleteDo you think Emma will let me in? ;)
She doesn't know your real name , does she?
ReplyDeleteSo she can't stop you. You know you have to rspv first, right?
You are a brave woman, I would puke just to hear her delusional lies.
Interesting none of you mentions Kim, the mother of his older son.
ReplyDeleteYes, he pays her well, it's true. But she has never spoken publicly about their relationship (or if she has, it's been years) and has always been discreet about it.
But who would like to inerview Kim?
ReplyDeleteKim has a special needs child she loves too much. As long as colin provides for all the boy's needs and shower him with love, she will keep distancefrom the press. Before she knew about the syndrome she wasn't very different from these others exes. I remenber when she went public to say she had taken her house keys back from him.
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ReplyDeleteSurely, you're not suggesting Ms Forrest is going to vet her audience or should that be guest list first are you? ;))
I suppose I would have to use my real name, so if I got in... I wonder what that would mean?! :-o
It is in her blog. Any people she can recognise from imdb she will vet. IMHO Here is what she wrote!
ReplyDeleteI am extremely honoured to say that the great Jon Ronson will host a Q and A session. It's a fiver to get in but that comes with wine. To reserve a place email anna@lutyensrubinstein.co.uk
# posted by Emma @ 2:42 PM
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Love Jon Ronson- he did a podcast recently with his son with Robin Ince and Josie Long that was really adorable.
# posted by Cathy : 3:42 PM
Very tempted to attend. I don't go to London very often but since you are one of my absolute favourite writers ever, I may make an exception...
# posted by Little Skunk : 9:00 PM
Very much looking forward to the book reading.
# posted by GEMINI : 5:31 AM
Great! Make sure to rsvp everyone, with your name (not blogging name) or you won't get in...
# posted by Emma : 6:10 AM
Yes, she loves her son. And is discreet. So that makes at least one - no, TWO - women now who can be discreet about past liaisons with Colin :)
ReplyDeleteWell, ABC probably could have said a lot worse. Maybe she still loves him. But I bet, when there will be a new gf on the horizon, she may change her mind I we will see a next memoir... Can't wait http://us.i1.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/i/mesg/emoticons7/102.gif
ReplyDelete11:29 Why are you so aggressive?
ReplyDelete'I am in London that day so yes, quite possibly...
ReplyDeleteDo you think Emma will let me in? ;)'
Hey Gem! I'm in London too! Just moved on Wednesday. Wanna meet up sometime?
Athena21
alimony is just for a wife...not baby mamma...he will have to pay child support.
ReplyDeleteAthena21 ;;) thanks for your lovely invite, but it does pose a problem for me. As it stands; I have a meeting to attend in the morning and afterwards I have agreed to meet someone. Later, I had intended to attend this EF book reading hype. However, judging from the way things are going, I’m no longer sure I’m prepared to waste my £5.00 for a free glass of wine in order to listen to a woman talking about a memoir mostly made up of her ‘imagination‘. Particularly, as it seems I could enjoy sharing a bottle of wine, stimulating conversation and… letting my own imagination run wild with someone else! :-* x
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